A...B....C...

A...B....C...

A void negative people, places, things and habits. 

B elieve in yourself.

C onsider things from every angle.

D on't give up and don't give in.

E njoy life today, Yesterday is gone. Tomorrow 

may never come!

F amily and friends are hidden treasures. Seek 

them and enjoy their riches.

G ive more than you planned.

H ang on to your dreams.

I gnore those who try to discourage you! 

J ust do it!

K eep trying no matter how hard it seems. It will 

get easier!

L ove yourself first and most.

M ake dreams happen.

N ever lie, cheat or steal. Always strike a fair deal. 

O pen your eyes and see things as they really are. 

P ractice makes perfect.

Q uitters never win and winners never quit!

R ead and learn about everything important to you. 

S top procrastinating!

T ake control of your own destiny. 

U nderstand yourself in order to better understand 

others. 

V isualize your dreams.

W ant your dream more than anything.

X -ccelerate your efforts.

Y ou are a unique individual. Nothing can replace 

YOU! 

Z ero in on your goals and GO FOR THEM!

-hOw gIRls lOOk aT boYS-

-hOw gIRls lOOk aT boYS-

Kalau lelaki handsome pendiam, 

Perempuan akan cakap: woow, cool giler... 

TAPI....

kalau lelaki tak handsome pendiam, 

Perempuan akan cakap: ekelleh perasan bagus...

kalau lelaki handsome berbuat jahat ,

Perempuan akan kata: nobody's perfect 

TAPI....

kalau lelaki tak handsome berbuat jahat, perempuan akan cakap: memang.... muka pun macam pecah rumah!

kalau lelaki handsome menolong perempuan yg 

diganggu,

perempuan akan cakap: wah.. machonya.. macam hero filem! 

TAPI....

kalau lelaki tak handsome menolong perempuan yang diganggu, 

Perempuan akan kata: entah2 kawan dia...

kalau lelaki handsome dapat perempuan cantik, 

perempuan akan kata: sepadan sangat... 

TAPI....

kalau lelaki tak handsome dapat perempuan cantik, 

perempuan akan kata: mesti kena bomoh perempuan tuh!

kalau lelaki handsome ditinggal kekasih, 

perempuan akan kata: jangan sedih, kan saya 

ada.. 

TAPI....

kalau lelaki tak handsome ditinggal kekasih, 

perempuan akan kata:...(terdiam, tapi telunjuknya meliuk-liuk dari atas ke bawah, patutlah, tengok saja luarannya)...

kalau lelaki handsome penyayang binatang, 

perempuan akan cakap: perasaannya halus...penuh kasih sayang 

TAPI....

kalau lelaki tak handsome penyayang binatang, perempuan akan cakap: sesama keluarga memang harus menyayangi...

kalau lelaki handsome bawa BMW,

perempuan 

akan cakap: matching... hebat luar dalam 

TAPI....

kalau lelaki tak handsome bawaBMW,

perempuan akan cakap: bang, bosnya mana?.

kalau lelaki handsome tak mau bergambar, 

perempuan akan cakap: pasti takut kalau2 

gambarnya tersebar 

TAPI....

kalau lelaki tak handsome tak mau bergambar, perempuan akan kata: tak sanggup melihat hasilnya ya?

kalau lelaki handsome selalu ajak jumpa, 

perempuan akan cakap: ok...klu boleh ari ari nak jumpa..... 

TAPI.... 

kalau lelaki tak handsome selalu ajak jumpa, perempuan akan kata: tak apa laa, i bz atau 

bf i tak kasi kuar atau i dah berpunya.... 

HAHAHHAHA....lumrah dunia...aper nak wat..

macamtue gak perangai ORG LELAKI pd ORG PEREMPUAN YG TAK LAWA kn????

JGN MARE......

What a lazy weekend..

What a fantastical lazy weekend i had at my house this weekend! I woke up on Saturday bout 1pm,and still lying on my lovely bed..,Adde ready for our lunch on our bed,such a good weekend isn't it??

It’s a cozy, lazy, snuggly time of year. Time to cook your favorite chili’s and stews and all that fabulous comfort food that sits in your belly and just sings to your soul..What’s your favorite thing to do on a lazy day?Chill out babe..!!Yihahhhh..!!!

Public holidays are great for doing things but, with the inevitable queues involved when going away or talking part in any sort of activity whilst the rest of the country is also off work, many people opt for an extra day of lazing around.

The problem when you spend two days doing virtually nothing is that, although it gives your mind and body a break from the hustle and bustle of everyday life, getting going again afterwards can be extremely difficult. Once your mind gets into that inactive state, it takes often more than an alarm clock and caffeine to wake it up again.

Going to west is west launching

Watch Ila Arun, Om Puri at West Is West Press Conference and Red Carpet in ODEON PRINTWORK 27 WITHY GROVE MANCHESTER CITY CENTRE

It was a starry red carpet outside the Odeon of printwork Manchester, Ila Arun,Om Puri and lots of stars from england as well but i forget the name because so many actor and actress in there..Their launch the movie of WEST IS WEST,the story about Pakistan & English culture and the film was so brilliant and so touching..i gave them a 5 stars for that film,their probably release that film around this 25 of February..i cant wait to watch again..i love Sajeed,his the one son of the english woman and pakistani people..i can't story here no more,because its no point for me to story here,should be surprise..but honestly its very touching film..


Im going with Anorak,witch is his a really best friend of mine..me and Anorak had 2 VVIP ticket for red carpet and launching west is west..and after finish the launching i really feel bloody starving and i wanted to eat some JAPANESE FOOD infront of the ODEON is wasabi,so i was decide just go having my dinner in there instead have to walk around and find some shop in town..its a bit cool to walk in this moment actually..hahahhah...so we having a lot's of conversation and chatting,by the way it's really fun because this is first time for Anorak with japanese food..and guess what..???i have to teach him how to use chop stik instead spoon or fork..hahhahha,it's bloody funny..!!but damn fun..!!


Thanks to Anorak for a great evening and chatting..love u lots man..!!hahhahha..xxxx

10 tips for self improvement

While I do not always end up managing to put each of the following tips into practice, I do make a big effort to do so each day. This is a list of my favorite tips to improving my life and maybe your life as well. All it takes is a little bit each day and you will see wondrous changes. ...

1 - Get off to a Good Start

This means getting up early and eating breakfast. You will have much more energy throughout the day to follow the rest of these tips if you do! If you are so inclined, you can even include a little exercise in your morning routine. If you live with other people you can try to use this opportunity to get everyone together at the table to eat in the mornings. This is a nice way to start the day and a good way to ensure open lines of communication in a very busy household.

2 - Keep a Schedule

It is a very good idea to write down the tasks you need to achieve in each day. As you complete them, tick them off. You should not, however, feel like you are bound to your list. If you don’t manage to do everything, it doesn’t matter – move any incomplete tasks from today on to tomorrow’s list. This is also a great help if you are a procrastinator.

3 - Take a Break and have Fun

If you spend too much time in front of the computer like me, might be at your desk or doing whatever it is that your occupation requires, you should take a break. This doesn’t mean you have to take time off work – it just means you should try to make better use of your non-work time to do something fun. I always have difficulty pulling myself away from the computer and as a result I don’t go out as often as I should on the weekend or in the evening. But every time I do – I wonder why I haven’t done it sooner. This is a good way to develop new interests, and friends and to break up the monotony of everyday life.and it's really works..!!i love it..;-)

4 -  Be Generous

Generosity has a tendency to come back. By generosity I am not referring only to money. You can be generous with your smiles, your advice, and many other things. Always try to find a way to help others. One day you may be in great need and people you know will be more likely to come to your aid when they know that you would do the same for them. You might know someone that could use help around the home from time to time – not only are you doing a good thing by helping them out, but you may also make a great new friend.

5 -  Accept the things you can’t Change

When something bad happens in our lives, we try to fix them or change them. But sometimes we can’t. Often this leads us to spend hours moping and falling in to depression. If you can make yourself accept the things you cannot change – you will become a much happier person. Acceptance of these situations also allows us to start finding a way to cope much faster. For example, you may realize that you have only £10 left in your bank account that has to last the next 2 weeks. Instead of getting down about it, accept that you have no money and work out a way to survive on that amount. You can save yourself from wasting hours in a bad mood by just getting on with life. You will find much more serenity in life following this tip.

6 - Learn a New Language

Learning another language is one of the best ways to improve your grasp on English. In my own experience, learning English at high school taught me so much more about grammar than English class ever did. In addition, when I later started studying Ancient UK, I learnt a lot about the roots of English words – something I have found very useful in writing in the years since. As well as improving your knowledge of English, if you learn a living language you increase the number of places you might like to visit – or make those holidays much more enjoyable by being able to speak to the natives in their own tongue.

7 - Break the Chain

If you have a lot of patterns in your life, try breaking them – do something different every day. Let’s say you always order the same meal at your regular Friday night restaurant. Why not try something else this Friday? Not only do you get to broaden your experiences of life, you open up many doors for the future. Not long ago I would never eat oriental foods or seafood. Then one day I decided that I would just try it. Seafood is now one of my favorite foods and I would hate to be without it. Because I discovered that I love Thai and Chinese food, I can eat in any restaurant I want. That first step also meant that I am now willing to try absolutely any food (except maybe the ones on the Top 10 most Disgusting Foods list). My disliking for those foods had a much greater impact as well – I would only holiday in countries that had foods I felt safe with. Since then I have been to Oriental countries and loved it.

8 - Face the Fear

Every day you should do something you don’t want to do – or feel uncomfortable doing. This varies in degrees for everyone, but we all have little things we can start out with. For example, you may not go to the gym because you fear everyone looking at you – do it anyway! In no time you will be so much more confident that you abolish the fear entirely and can move on to the next fear – maybe even something bigger. Living a fearless life gives you a confidence that is visible to others. Instead of building walls around ourselves, we should be tearing them down.

9 - Forget Goals – Live for the Now

Lists of this nature almost always tell you to set and write goals. I am going to tell you the opposite. A very wise psychotherapist once told me that if you set a goal, and achieve it, you are often left with an empty feeling because the goal is not what you thought it would be. Not only does it not satisfy, you inevitably end up missing out on so much life by striving to reach something in the future. Having said this, I don’t think you should ignore the future – it is worth having some idea of what you might like to one day achieve – but don’t focus all of your energy on getting it. A good example of the difference is this: I have a goal to live in France. I spend 10 years trying to save up all my money so I can acheive that goal. In the meantime I am so busy scrimping and saving, that I can’t afford to go out with friends, I can’t afford to live in a nice home, and I am miserable because I am not living in France. On the other hand, if I simply decide that one day I would like to live in France, the idea is in my mind, but I continue to live and enjoy my life. In living my life, I am happy now and not focused on a distant goal. If it happens, great. If it doesn’t happen, I haven’t failed at anything. But who knows what wonderful things may happen in my life in the meantime? A very good fictitious example of this can be found in the film American Beauty.

10 - Don’t Procrastinate

This is one I struggle with a lot in my own life. This has been a great challenge for me as I work from home,study,and on my way build my own business here but taking this job has really helped me to stop putting things off and take control of my life. The feeling after completing a task you would normally put off is a great high – and certainly a much healthier one than some of the other highs in our lives. When you put something off, you are putting yourself into time-debt. You have to pay that debt back and almost always you end up having to do that at the most inconvenient time. By putting off writing an article for the site, for example, I end up having to write one at 7 at night when I would rather be watching a movie and having a drink! Your life will become so much more organized if you follow this rule.

Good Luck then..xxx

Why can life be so cruel sometimes...???

I feel like I have gained so many beautiful things in life, yet I have lost so many beautiful things I have gained. 

I have been very unlucky in love too, and when I finally have found the right Man, it turns out that we can't be together for longer due to us having conflicting goals in our careers. I have also lost a few best friends who I gave my all too, but for whatever reason things didn't work out.

Is life supposed to give and take? or am I just experiencing some bad luck. Are some people more fortunate than others?

from Malaysia to United Kingdom, I still love to EAT.. :) ehem3

Lempeng Mak..I love it..!!!in Kedah Loghat their call it Cucuq tempek..hhahahha..funny isn't it..???but i love it..!!i love my Mum..

Pour the mixture on the pan and spread it

Turn back and forth until it turns golden brown

Tadaaa...finaly this is my Mum lempeng..i love it..!!!

Okie  dokie, recipe to share today...mmm...it's been a while I haven't put a new recipe in my page...two entries to be precise...but the above merapu composition said it all! Hahaha.....I'd like to share something that was made by my darling Adde,and guess what,i try it also make my own lempeng..Bravo2..!!. It's called Lempeng and i still remember my mom said to mention...it's so easy to prepare....so, why don't you give it a try. Who knows, it'll suit your taste buds! Thank you so much MAK for your lovely recipe as well as the lovely lempeng...yummy good for the tummy!!!